Toni Nicole
Tuesday, January 5, 2016
The Internet is killing me
The digital world is ruining my life.
It's the things that I see, the endless river of photos and headlines that are eroding my innermost core.
Being online is chipping away at my soul and creating a world that I wish I could unsee.
A fraction of the lives of others, snapshots of someone else's reality that isn't even real.
Be prettier.
Work harder.
Value things more and people less. Buy this thing you never really wanted, spend all your money it will all work out.
Earn your self worth with every 'like' and right swipe.
All of this at the expense of character, integrity, and honor.
I keep gaining followers but I wouldn't even follow myself.
If I were on the outside looking in I would be hypnotized by the happy pictures and encouraging posts but from the inside I know it's not always picture perfect.
Life is dirty.
Life is gritty and nasty and hard.
Life is about hard truths not pretty doses of moments so fleeting that I can't even remember them without my Instagram.
Whatever happened to making phone calls?
The anxiety is overwhelming "what if they answer?"
What if they do?
There was purpose in conversation and meaning in giving time and now we are all dispensing a text here and there and substituting face time with FaceTime.
I have to pull myself out of this ugly and painful fictitious realm or I'll never really experience life as I know it.
The Internet is killing me.
We have to break up.
Tuesday, September 6, 2011
It is what it is
Monday, August 8, 2011
Risky Business
Tuesday, June 28, 2011
Through the Airwaves
Saturday, June 25, 2011
The Machine
It's amazing; the power of doing nothing. There is so much involved in this world. I find the loved ones around me struggling tirelessly to fit into this living breathing machine of bodies moving fluidly through life with minor set backs and ultimately no goal.
We are a mechanism of struggle; man. There is so much intensity poured into the idea of becomming someone, when ultimately we have all been someone all along.
As I sit here, immersed in the life around me, the world spins, children laugh, birds play, trees move in the cool breeze, lovers hold hands and ignore everything aside from the look in each others eyes. The world doesn't stop because I chose to sit on a bench and live on it for a moment.
I recognize that this is life. I'm indulging myself in the realization that this is not about me. There is a greater intelligence to this utter nonsense. There is happiness when I am void of it, there is sadness when I have no reason for it. It exists whether I need it to be applicable or not. There is no "me" in this machine, there is only "us." We all exist at once, keeping the machine in working order.
I am happy to coexist on this planet with you. All of you. There is not a single person I would choose to exclude because without that one soul choosing and living we would be without a very important wheel in the clock of life.
I'm a small part of this moving breathing machine of life around us and I'm choosing to be a dormant part of this symphony of voices and lives for one day just to sit back and watch the stories around me unfold.
It's amazing what happens when you don't DO anything, you just simply go with the flow. The flow doesn't stop. The direction changes as organisms choose their paths, however it is unceasing. There is no greater opportunity than now to become a fixture in this machine of life. You are already a creation of it's never ending change, a product of choices of millions of intricate pieces working together to create life as we know it.
When you see it, actually see the world as the mechanism that it is, you will be completely captivated by it's intricacy. All of it's parts working independantly but together simultaneously.
I've seen it, the machine. It's a work of art that only heavenly inventors could design. It has changed me. I am a piece of this beautiful creation.
I am a human. I am a collection of choices that alter the production of the machine I was born into. When you see it, you will understand.